DITA BONBON

independent mature travel companion in Europe

 

I am an independent mature companion (in my late 40's) based in Helsinki, and ready to meet you almost anywhere in the world! I am soft spoken and deliciously curvy girlfriend, who genuinely loves this perhaps a little unusual life of hers. I am easy company to spend time with, perceptive to the needs of others, very down to earth with a bubbly sense of humour and a smile to melt any heart. You will be meeting the real me, not an actress pretending to enjoy. My magic is to make you feel comfortable and at ease immediately, creating a safe and inviting environment to be yourself, as you are drawn into my gaze, feeling my fingers on your skin, and everything else around us disappears...

 It is an immense pleasure to be able to go with the flow as we get to know each other, building up the intimacy, perhaps first flirting over lunch, dinner or a glass of wine, and then for the dessert totally forget the cold outside world and let ourselves lose in the sweet intimate moment, creating secrets of our own.

You ache for guilt-free exploration of all things erotic, an invigorating affair, a carefree hidden haven far away from the demands of everyday life. Your unfulfilled desire to to have a smiling, titillating girlfriend with a sparkling spirit to escape the mundane with, to spoil and pamper, to see how my eyes, my soft, curvy body reacts to your touch.


Perhaps you crave to be held, slowly caressed, you miss the healing intimacy between a man and a woman. Come and enjoy my touch and genuine affection, lose yourself in the never ending kisses, the warmth, the desire... The time spent together is always unhurried, full of tenderness, and we concentrate only on each other and the pleasures we share.


Do note longer adventures are prioritized and preferred, sleepovers/24h are highly recommended as first dates. I am well-versed in travelling to you for the first date, scroll for more info under the tab "travel". I am kink and fetish friendly (financial domination, momdom, mommydom, feet, worship, food, spanking, submission, milf). Discussions about longer term arrangements are most welcome, more info under the tab "arrangement".


I look forward to connecting with you :)


Some of my favourite pastime activities are wandering in art galleries and museums, exquisite dinners in characteristic restaurants, sitting at quaint cafes people watching, getting tipsy on extra brut champagne in bed, as well as painting, photography, poetry, action movies, spooning and drawing invisible stories on your back with my fingers. And love for adjectives, obviously ;)

Please note I have tattoos.


I love courteous gentlemen who appreciate the caring and vivacious companionship that an attentive woman in tune with her sensuality can offer. You are looking for a deeper, unique connection and intimacy on many levels. You desire escapism, sense of abandon, magical moments out of the ordinary. Reading between the lines, reading comprehension in general, sense of humour and not expecting a cold menu of acronyms are also very highly regarded.



 dare to think outside the stereotype

not merely "gfe", I am the girlfriend

mature, curvy, all natural milf

kink and fetish friendly


dita bonbon availability calendar

click the tabs above to read all details, rates etc before you send a message

2024 is the year of arrangements, read more by clicking the tab above


Do note I'll be available after April 2.


There's a possibility for an incall dinner date or date night in Helsinki on the second week of April if pre-booked before Easter! 


fly me to you or let's escape together


I'd love to join you on your travels, business or pleasure, around the world for weekday escapades, weekend getaways and longer adventures!


Morning mischief, lunchtime liaisons, discreet dinner date dalliances? Lonely evenings or long days in a strange city need not be dull anymore. Invite me to spend time with you exploring the city, for culinary adventures or perhaps cultural endeavours. Why not meet for lunch, enjoy the day in and out and then kiss our goodbyes after dinner allowing you to have a good night's sleep. The possibilities are endless!


For the first date and the full Dita experience I recommend  a day and night escapade as then we will have enough time to chat, kiss, cuddle, get to know each other better first with no feeling of rush. Weekend together is a truly amorous, relaxed and authentic, deeply erotic experience, exploring each other intimately, body and mind, flirting, dinner, sleeping naked bodies entwined, breakfast in bed... These are my favourite dates and highly recommended if you also wish to explore the culinary wonders of the city you're visiting, spend a languorous morning in bed with no alarm bell, enjoy champagne brunch or cook breakfast together, tell me you desires for a perfect date!


All dates include social time as I love to chat and flirt over a meal to build up openness and true connection. I would love to accompany you to opera, ballet, art gallery, movies, concert, wine tasting, sporting event - what is your favourite way to spend a day? When was the last time you had brunch? Not able to spend the whole night, what about dinner after work and breakfast in the morning? Just ask, I have flexible solutions for most scheduling dilemmas :)


Please send an email detailing the plan: dates, location, is it purely pleasure or also business for you, duration of the trip and any plans you have for us to explore the destination, shall we spend 24/7 together or will you be attending business during the day. All details are valid and welcome and will make the booking process a lot smoother.




fly me to you rates 


dinner date (only in Europe) = 1100  euros 

date night (only in Europe) = 1500  e

sleepover (only in Europe) = 1900  e

a day and a night/1d = 2700 e

weekend/2d = 3600  e

extended weekend/3d = 4500 e

4d = 5500 e 

7d = 7000 e 


something else = ask for a quote



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General T&C's for fly me to you dates: Full screening and a minimum 75 % deposit required. All travel costs and incidentals are to be paid in advance with the deposit. Pre-payment in full and crypto payments highly recommended. All applicable T & C's will be discussed beforehand (scroll down to the tab "deposit policy"). 


My travel expenses, accommodation, Visa or airport transfers in Helsinki and in location are not included in the rates. Business class or premium economy airfare is appreciated even for European destinations. For multi-day trips a separate room is appreciated (you may think you don't snore, but...). For travel dates outside of Europe, accommodation for one extra night before or after our date may be required due to flight schedules. I will arrange my own travel bookings. I accept only euros and crypto.



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If my rates that are at fairly normal European level seem too low for you, you are more than welcome to tip me, bring a gift from my wishlist  or take me shopping :)


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Just a few cities I'd like to visit this year, perhaps your business takes you to some of them regularly? Let's talk.


Luxembourg - Delhi - Mumbai - Amman  - Malta - Istanbul - Melbourne - Rome - Cairo - Florence - Buenos Aires - Geneva - Marrakech - Brussels - Beirut - Tokyo - Ho Chi Minh - Seoul - Lisbon - Amsterdam


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the kept woman experience


Le cinq à sept, le deux à quatre, the time is ours... and I know I'm addictive ;)


You are an exceptional man looking for an escape from the ordinary, an affair always in the honeymoon phase, carefree escapades to forget the everyday stress. You appreciate down to earth attitude, no fuss demeanour and all natural mature woman. Craving a connection, aching for touch, longing for togetherness - you have found me.


I smile with my eyes, listen with all my being and touch with all my heart. Connection and chemistry will be more than empty words, they are so easy to spark into life when we both crave the same things - stress free life, naturally evolving pleasures, mutual trust.  I’m generous with my time and body, you are generous to create this blissful bubble to satisfy all of our senses and desires. Sweet and sensual GFE is who I am, but I have hidden fondness for kink and fetish (financial domination, worship, spanking).


Call it arrangement, perhaps an affair, it will be anything but ordinary. Please email to introduce yourself and to outline your wishes for an adventure into our secret life of pleasure. I'm open to discuss an arrangement based on travel (eg. you travel for business monthly/weekly, invite me along), international relocation for certain period of time, or why not spending eg. few days/week in your city every month. Anything is possible! What would be your favourite way to enjoy my company?  :)


semi exclusive

Set number of dates/travel days every month starting from 1600 euros

(travel/accommodation not included)


exclusive

We'll be counting experiences, not days starting from 8000 euros

(travel/accommodation not included)


Minimum 3 month commitment required (min. 2 months paid upfront). Do remember more is more in all aspects of this long term, stable commitment.


Helsinki with Dita


Dates are possible at Helsinki city centre 5 star hotels. I can book the hotel if the cost is pre-paid along with the deposit. Screening and a deposit confirms the date. 



outcall in Helsinki 


sleepover = 1800 euros

date night = 1400 e

dinner = 1000 e



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Restaurant suggestions: Cafe Savoy, Savoy, Le Coucou Vert, The Rook, Le Ankka, Murasaki, Palace, Sekel, Pobre, Latitude 25, Olo, Demo, Pastis, Bardot, Finnjävel Salonki, Farouge



Hotel recommendations: The Hotel Maria, St George, Grand Hansa, Kämp, Haven


take the first step

 Securing your date in advance is recommended to avoid disappointment. Short notice enquiries even for travel will be entertained when possible, and if they come in a polite email including ALL the required information and immediate payment.


 Your initial contact is the first impression I get of you, it sets the tone for the conversation and is the biggest factor in the screening process. You can read more about screening by scrolling down for the tab "deposit policy". Introducing yourself properly and writing in full sentences is the only acceptable way to proceed. Respectful communication and mutual trust is the key to chemistry. Chemistry is just the first step to a lot more. In short, make me excited to meet you.


Do note I'll be available after April 2.

all fields required

click the tabs to find my wish lists and more


to make me blush


Gifts are never expected, but always cherished and appreciated. 


Cash (euros only), crypto and gold bullions are my favourites as I don't need or want any unnecessary items to clutter my life. Money towards my savings and investments shows you truly want the best for me. If you already have my bank or Throne details, that's the best way to proceed :)


NB. please no liquids on travel dates as I usually travel with carry-on only.




Some of my favourite things


Hermès Un Jardin Apres la Mousson perfume and body care

Dior Capture Totale skincare

Hermés sandals (reds, browns, sz 38,5)

Roger Vivier shoes (sz 38,5)

Vintage Persian/Afghan rugs

Hermès cashmere shawls (brown, camel, red)

Cartier Trinity ring (sz 17)

Diamond stud earrings (min. 2 ca total)

Burberry trenchcoat

MaxMara cashmere coat

Rolex Datejust 36, oyster bracelet and aubergine dial

Hermès Kelly bags (sz 32 retourne, browns/reds/greens)



travel wish list


Some travel dates may require a little bit more planning, but as a hopeless wanderslut, I'm more than happy to offer incentives for the gentleman hoping to share these travel plans with me. Where shall we go?



Melbourne, my love

Let's have brunches all day in Australia's compact and diverse culinary capital!


safari in Africa

Africa is filled with once-in-a-lifetime bucket-list safari experiences, let's witness The Big 5 together!


vibrant Vietnam

Let's go eat like locals, partake in the colourful festivals, from city to the beaches - or let's just eat it all!


incredible India

India is a mosaic of multicultural experiences, shall we experience Agra, Jaipur, Varanasi or Lucknow first?


majestic Morocco

Let's relax at a riad & spa, shop at the souks, get lost in the colourful hustle & bustle!


eternal Egypt

From Nile cruise to Valley of the Kings, from the desert to the sea - let's do it all in Egypt!


Sri Lanka

Leopard spotting and visiting all the Unesco heritage sites - let's explore this fragrant miniature island nation!


Jordan

Sites to see from ancient history - Petra, Amman, Wadi Rum - let's experience the Kingdom steeped in history and culture!


Mediterranean Sea

Shall we spend a tranquil summer at a villa by the Mediterranean - with visits to vineyards and secluded villages?


Japan

Should we do cherry blossom tour, walk through bamboo forests, explore all the ancient shrines?


Argentina

Let's learn to tango, feast on steaks and then go to The End of The World!


. . .or tell me your dream travel destination! 



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All Blacks rugby match

The Royal Edinburgh Military Tattoo

vineyard tour in Portugal

private tour of the Vatican Museum and Sistine Chapel

chocolate making workshop in Belgium

Lagavulin distillery tour

cruise on river Nile

Moulin Rouge & shoe shopping in Paris

theatre dates in London

Orient Express from Paris to Istanbul or vice versa

The Venice Simplon Orient Express

Mediterranean cruise

weekend at Ritz Paris, Claridge's London, Raffles Singapore, Museum Hotel Cappadocia, Passalacqua Lake Como, La Mamounia Marrakech, The Gritti Palace Venice, Taj Mahal Palace Mumbai


testimonials


I value our privacy and the very private and intimate moments we share so highly, I do not want any details to be displayed for the whole internet to read. If you wish to send me a short and sweet thank you note about our date to be published anonymously here on my website, I would be one very happy girl :)



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I truly enjoyed the date and your company. You are very understanding, warm and safe and those things mean the most for me. Things that I value in you the most are your gentleness, that you accept me as I am and don't let the facts like my injuries or me being [redacted] define our interactions. That you see potential and worth in me, not only my flaws. You make me feel safe, respected and accepted, noticed and valued. And I thank you for everything you do and are. You know how to make an old [redacted] happy and to blush in public. 


C, Finland, April 2023 in Helsinki



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"I came across this poem today. It reminded me so vividly of how I felt that weekend with you:


i like my body when it is with your

by e. e. cummings


i like my body when it is with your

body. It is so quite a new thing.

Muscles better and nerves more.

i like your body. - i like what it does,

i like its hows. - i like to feel the spine

of your body and its bones, and the trembling

-firm-smooth ness and which i will

again and again and again

kiss, - i like kissing this and that of you,

i like, slowing stroking the, shocking fuzz

of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes

over parting flesh . . . And eyes big love-crumbs,


and possibly i like the thrill


of under me you so quite new"


mr V, Finland, July 2018 in Helsinki



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"I would just like to thank you once again for a lovely time. Unlike most things in this life, you get much more than you describe on your website when spending time with you. Every moment of my time with you feels special, as you are totally there with me and for me, physically and mentally. Thank you."


mr P, Denmark, May 2018 in Helsinki



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"She's that rarity of rarities, a 100% Finnish lady who is both passionate and generous to those lucky gentlemen who prefer a true, all encompassing girlfriend experience. Dita will both satisfy your soul and melt your heart with her winning smile, bubbly personality and warm embrace. Waking up next to her is like a dream come true. A great conversationalist, she will show you parts of Helsinki you may never have known exist otherwise. The longer you stay with Dita, the better it gets."


mr R, USA, September 2017 in Helsinki



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"For those of you looking for the pearl of the Baltic, look no further. Dita is a gem! She's warm, vivacious and very, very accommodating. Her English is impeccable and she will surely bring a smile to your face. A wonderful girlfriend experience, a sexy and intelligent woman who cooks a mean Aussie breakfast - what more can a man ask for? Comes highly recommended!"


mr M, Finland, December 2016 in Helsinki


click the tabs to read all necessary details to book a date


how to book a date with me


1) After our initial correspondence I ask you to verify yourself. This can be done by sending a message to me on Linkedin, sending an email from your work email to my discreet email address without the name Dita, sending an unblurred photo of your government issued id and/or work badge. Let me know which two methods you would prefer. Naturally the name/photo must match on all methods used.


2) After verifying yourself we can confirm the date and time of our date. For that I require a deposit to secure that time in both our calendars. The amount of the deposit depends on eg. the screening info I have gotten about you, the location and duration of the date, and it can be anything from 50% to 75% of the total sum. 


Full pre-payment is recommended as nobody likes to travel with a wad of cash. Please note that for travel dates all other applicable costs (travel, accommodation, Visa, airport transfers) are extra and will be paid on top of the deposit.


Primary payment methods are crypto, international bank transfer to an European bank account and Throne payment. Let me know in your first message which method you prefer. I do not accept online payment services, credit cards, gift cards or PayPal. I also accept cash on a short meet & greet date in Helsinki in person (to arrange this an extra 300 euros is to be paid in full in advance), or any combination of all these options. For cash I accept euros only.


Follow all payment instructions I give to you, especially regarding the email addresses, names and messages used on payment platforms.


3) Keep your correspondence civil and polite at all times and include all the information in the first email. I do not have the patience for one sentence at a time conversations. Explicit language and inability to follow my very simple rules will get you cancelled and/or blocked. I sell time, not acronyms.


4) Then we will eagerly wait for our date :) In the meantime you might want to find out what I like from my wish list.




DEPOSIT POLICY IN DETAIL


A deposit is necessary to confirm your appointment to weed out the ever growing number of time wasters from the genuine enquiries. All dates require a 25-75 % deposit to secure our time together. As a part time companion I’m very selective about who I choose to spend time with, and as almost all of the dates are longer encounters I need to plan my time accordingly. By requiring a deposit, I can concentrate my energy to those who are serious about arranging a date with me and who respect my time and commitment just as much I respect theirs.


The €€ for a deposit depends on your screening info, or lack of it, and location and duration of the date. I have several options for paying the deposit and it may be a combination of some of them or just one, again depending on location and duration of the date. The deposit needs to be paid as soon as the method has been agreed on, i.e. international bank transfers are not instant. The deposit must be on my bank account before I will proceed with any further arrangements for the date or discussions about it.


Never ever use the name Dita, email address including the name Dita or words like booking, dinner date, overnight etc on messages/references for a payment. I will give you a reference to use for every transaction, use that phrase only.



Postponing or cancelling our date


If you need to postpone our date, please give me as much notice as possible. If I have already booked travel, or other nonrefundable services for our date (eg. a hotel room), those expenses will be deducted from the already paid deposit, and any new expenses required to make the date happen on a later day, need to be covered by you by paying extra deposit when rescheduling. Rest of the deposit will be forwarded towards a new date that is scheduled immediately and within 2 months (60 days) of the cancelled date. If by any chance you need to reschedule or cancel our engagement a second time in a row, there will be no refund and a third opportunity to meet will require a full prepayment.



Refund


The only time a refund will be offered to you is if I have to cancel/postpone our engagement. That has never happened and would be a very rare exception. Should this situation ever present itself and you still would like to reschedule our date, it will be my pleasure to make it up to you by adding extra time to our date.



Advance payment in full (with crypto)


An advance payment is optional and up to your discretion, but strongly recommended for many reasons. The advance payment can be submitted at any time prior to the appointment, also after a deposit has already been paid, then you'll just pay the remainder of the rate.


This option offers many advantages

- no need to carry large amount of cash

- we don’t have to discuss finances when we meet

- it immediately inspires trust and makes the screening process faster and easier

- it demonstrates your serious intentions and immediately puts me at ease

- I cannot wait to meet a gentleman of that caliber and will have many erotic dreams about you prior to our date


If you need to postpone or cancel a date paid in full, the same terms apply as to a deposit, listed above in section 'Postponing or cancelling our date' with one exception. I will give you two chances to reschedule within a 3 month (90 days) period, after that the full amount will be forfeited to cover my time spent in vain with you for the last 90 days.



Worried about your privacy/blackmail/whatever imaginary concern you may have


I can only hope one reason for choosing me as a reputable, established companion is that you understand the need for privacy and safety for both parties. As a professional companion I have had a website since 2014, active social media since 2014, Dita lives out in the open and that wouldn't be possible if my M.O. is scamming clients for few hundred euros as deposits. I prefer earning the full four figures for an actual date.


I won't be calling/texting you in the evening, I won't contact you without prior agreement, I have no interest in getting into your life in any other form or time other than what we have agreed on. That should be understood and not mix me with a random tinder date with her own agenda perhaps hoping for something more, or a random ad on a random website with photos stolen from instagram and a burner phone number. You should do your due diligence as well to be a responsible client. All I hope for you is to have a happy, stable home and a prosperous career to be able to have fun with me regularly. Any info I have received for screening won't be stored anywhere, it will be deleted after confirming the facts. I use a secure encrypted email for all correspondence regarding screening. Instead of gmail or any other Microsoft/Apple/US-based account, I'd recommend you do the same.



privacy policy

May 23, 2018


Dita takes your online privacy very seriously. Therefore, unless you explicitly state otherwise, or we explicitly state otherwise, any data that we collect as a result of your use of the site remains confidential. Any personal emails and email conversations are kept only on an encrypted Protonmail account, never uploaded, transferred or forwarded to a third party. To achieve end to end encrypted correspondence, we recommend switching to a Protonmail email account.


How we collect your personal data

You may give us data verbally or by filling in forms or by corresponding with us by post, phone, email or otherwise, for example when you:

- enter into a service contract with us or contact us about doing so;

- contact us about any contract we have with you;

- request marketing to be sent to you;

- communicate with us on social media;

- give us some feedback.

We will collect personal identification information from users only if they voluntarily submit such information to us.


Disclosure Of Data

We never share your personal data with any third parties.

Legal Requirements: we may disclose your personal data in the good faith belief that such action is necessary to:

- To comply with a legal obligation

- To protect and defend the rights or property of Dita BonBon

- To prevent or investigate possible wrongdoing in connection with the service

- To protect the personal safety of users of the service or the public

- To protect against legal liability


Use of Data

We use the collected data only

- To provide and maintain the service

- To allow you to participate in interactive features of our service when you choose to do so

- To provide customer care and support

- To provide analysis or valuable information so that we can improve the service

- To monitor the usage of the service

- To send you marketing communications by email from us only if you have requested information from us or purchased goods or services from us  or registered for a promotion and, in each case, you have chosen the preferred method of contact and have not opted out of receiving that marketing.


Security Of Data

The security of your data is important to us, but remember that no method of transmission over the Internet, or method of electronic storage is 100% secure. While we strive to use commercially acceptable means to protect your personal data, we cannot guarantee its absolute security.


Data Retention

When you enter into a service contract with us or contact us about doing so, contact us about any contract we have with you, request marketing to be sent to you, communicate with us on social media, give us some feedback through the site, we will maintain your communication Information for our records only on encrypted Protonmail account unless and until you ask us to delete this information.


Third-Party Links

This website may include links to third-party websites, plug-ins and applications. Clicking on those links or enabling those connections may allow third parties to collect or share data about you. We do not control these third-party websites and are not responsible for their privacy statements. When you leave our website, we encourage you to read the privacy notice of every website you visit.


Use of Cookies

When visiting our web pages, we would like to use tracking technologies that record information about you automatically. This can include using a cookie that would be stored on your browser.This information does not identify you personally. We automatically collect and store only the following information about your visit:

- The internet domain and IP address from where you access our website;

- The type of browser software and operating system used to access our website;

- The date and time you access our website;

-  the pages you enter, visit and exit our website from; and

- If you linked to our website from another website, the address of that website.


We use this information to help us identify click stream patterns, to improve our website and to learn about the number of visitors to our website and the types of technology our visitors use. We only use this information to ensure that our web pages stay compatible with a selection of browsers and systems and thereby ensure that the pages appeal to a wide audience. We do not track or record information about individuals and their visits.


Minors

The site is not intended for individuals under the age of 18.


Changes To This Privacy Policy

We may update our privacy policy from time to time. We will notify you of any changes by posting the new privacy policy on this page


If you are a European resident, you have the right to access personal information we hold about you and to ask that your personal information be corrected, updated, or deleted. If you would like to exercise this right, please contact us through the contact information below.


If you have any questions about this privacy policy, please contact me personally by email: ditabonbon@protonmail.com


Last edited March 21, 2024 (home)
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Just a few places I'd like to visit this year, perhaps your business takes you to some of them regularly? Let's talk.


Luxembourg - Delhi - Mumbai - Amman - Malta - Istanbul - Melbourne - Rome - Cairo - Florence - Buenos Aires - Geneva - Marrakech - Brussels - Tokyo - Seoul - Lisbon - Amsterdam


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